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Delicious and filling

June 14, 2008 by Oz

About a year ago, I went to visit a local temple for the first time. I was greeted by a friendly monk and he showed me the grounds. He had big ears and a warm smile of ease. Soft spoken as he was, the howling wind and chimes made it difficult to say much, so we decided to sit down. Settling in the main hall, I was struck by how simple it was. Nothing more than a small living room with a bare rug over a wooden floor. There was a moderately sized statue of Gotama against one wall, a bench and clock against another, and a short coffee table in the middle.

I sat and faced the venerable, who was no more than three feet away, as he gave a short dhamma talk. While his talk on the importance of kindness was good, he actually didn’t have to say anything. From the moment he let me in, showed me around, and sat down, his kindness and simplicity radiated. It seemed to me he lived and breathed with complete sincerity, just as he spoke. He was the very image of what he had taught. We could have just sat there and said nothing and it would have been just as nice.

The venerable then guided me through meditation. After tapping the bell, and throughout the meditation, he would occasionally utter the words, “May I be well, happy, and peaceful.” After some time, it would be extended to parents, teachers, relatives, friends, indifferent persons, enemies, and all living beings. For twenty minutes that’s all that mattered, sitting and hearing those words.

Wind blowing, chimes ringing, clocks ticking, my thinking, all subsided. All of it drowned out in the silence and in the soft words of love. I could not find anything like this in my books. Such lightness must have been what it was all about.

I had my first taste of freedom.

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Posted in Meditation | Tagged freedom, loving kindness, Meditation, metta, peace | 4 Comments

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  1. on June 14, 2008 at 4:09 pm misterbooks

    I hope you have had similiar taste of freedom and compassion since last year also. Sounds beautiful. I have yet to visit a “local” temple.
    Peace,


  2. on June 20, 2008 at 8:05 am Anna

    Thank you for sharing. Very light feeling comes from this post

    May all be happy, may all be free..


  3. on June 23, 2008 at 4:00 pm Oz

    @misterbooks: there IS a local temple, I’m sure. Shouldn’t have to look to far to find it 😉

    @Anna: Thanks for reading!


  4. on July 22, 2008 at 4:06 am Learn Chinese Online

    Interested thing of learn chinese online that is we have fun & that is very interesting too….!



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